My daughter has alot of hair! She has had tons of hair from her first day of life! On top of that its very curly.To calm the mane and fluff I use this awesome hair oil I got from the indian store. Its called Dadur Vatica and has a mixture of coconut, henna, and caster oil to encourage hair growth, condition, and protect. It works wonders on my daughters hair! I oil her hair once a week and then wash it out. On crazy hair days I will use a tinny bit in my hands and just play with her hair and it becomes so much more manageable.